How the hell did I get here, that is something I seem to say a lot. I am a single gay white male living in Atlanta. As a child I was the smart one, easy to get along with, had a great future. But, as Julia Sweeny has stated...God said "ha". So, here I find myself at the end of my 30's, alone, shaved head, fat, not too fat mind you, but not perfect, working in a bar...gay bar...well, gay leather bar. Yeah, how did I get here.